Posts by Thinking of Leaving

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Social Anxiety Disorders

by Thinking of Leaving in

hi everyone, the guy i'm currently dating suffers from social phobia and it's beginning to affect our relationship.

does anyone have any experience dealing with this?

i have to admit this is all new to me, most of the guys i've dated are pretty normal, but this one seems to need some extra care.

Hi Everyone, the guy I'm currently dating suffers from Social Phobia and it's beginning to affect our relationship. Does anyone have any experience dealing with this? I have to admit this is all new to me, most of the guys I've dated are pretty normal, but this one seems to need some extra care. I've thought about breaking it off because of his illness but I have very strong feelings for him and care for him deeply. Am I being realistic in hoping this will work for both of us or is this form of mental illness so severe that I can't make a success of the relationship. If anyone has advice on this, please share it with me.

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Would You Recommend A Person Remain A Virgin Before Marriage???

by minimus in

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being raised as a good witness, i was a virgin until i was married.

of course, the scriptures say one must not commit fornication.

however, i know most teens have sex well before marriage.

Thinking of Leaving

For myself, I prefer to wait. Too many guys out there want you for sex and sex only. I would feel really used if I had sex with someone, got pregnant or an STD and he took off. It really is a personal choice.

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What was the biggest secret that you kept from everyone

by TheCoolerKing in

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what was the biggest "secret" that you kept from everyone when you were a witness?.

i thought would could have some fun with this topic on a friday afternoon.. back when i was an active witness i started "secretly" dating a "worldy" girl.

there was a shortage of single sisters at my hall.

Thinking of Leaving

I played the lottery in this pool at work

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What was the biggest secret that you kept from everyone

by TheCoolerKing in

jw
friends

what was the biggest "secret" that you kept from everyone when you were a witness?.

i thought would could have some fun with this topic on a friday afternoon.. back when i was an active witness i started "secretly" dating a "worldy" girl.

there was a shortage of single sisters at my hall.

Thinking of Leaving

well it's not a secret anymore, but I also dated a worldly man for about two years, left him and started dating another worldly man, my friends never found out even though we live pretty close by. Weird

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Those Three Words "I love you"

by Thinking of Leaving in

hi everyone, happy friday.

i have a question for the guys and girls on this board.

do you think that the man or the woman should say "i love you" first in a relationship?.

Thinking of Leaving

seeeee I knew it! you sound like you know what you're talking about, thanks, I totally agree with u

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If you had to, what religion would you choose to be?

by Crumpet in

you can answer this as seriously (lt) or as inanely (buttlight) as you like!

i was reflecting having read someone's thread about blowing off non jw family that actually it would have been so much better if i had a larger family, preferably not completely jw saturated and this random train of thought led me to thinking that if i could choose i would be catholic, because then i would have a huge family, go to really nice gothic churches with lots of candles and tortured saints and be able to go to confession (instead of lt's mobile).

also the colours of the whore of babylon always were a lot more enticing to me than the mild blues and undistracting beiges of the khs.. i think we all have religions which would suit our personalities so much better.